Wealthy After 40: Personal Finance, Budgeting, Retirement Planning, Savings, Spending, Financial Freedom, and How to Retire for Gen Xers
The Podcast That Helps Gen Xers Retire Up to 5 Years Sooner
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You’ve worked hard for decades, but now the big questions are creeping in:
👉 Will I have enough to retire?
👉 Is it too late to start retirement planning?
Welcome to Wealthy After 40, the podcast for Gen X women and couples who want to feel confident and clear about how to retire, even if you’re starting late or feel behind on your retirement savings.
I’m Dalene Higgins, a financial and retirement coach helping Gen Xers take control of their money through simple retirement systems that work now and later.
Together, we build a personalized money system that aligns with your values and lifestyle, so you can budget with confidence, save consistently, and create a clear path to retire on your own terms.
Each week, you’ll get step-by-step guidance for retirement planning, smart budgeting strategies, and realistic ways to grow your savings, both your emergency fund and retirement savings, without overwhelm.
If you’re ready to stop stressing about money, build a financial plan you trust, and create a future you’re excited about, this podcast is for you.
Retirement isn’t out of reach. Let’s simplify your next steps with clear advice on how to retire, starting today.
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Wealthy After 40: Personal Finance, Budgeting, Retirement Planning, Savings, Spending, Financial Freedom, and How to Retire for Gen Xers
Ep 156 | One Simple Step To Help You Plan For Your Retirement
When you think about retirement, does it ever feel like everything is an urgent must-do? Should you pay off debt, be saving more, or catch up on savings for retirement? No wonder it feels overwhelming! The truth is, trying to tackle everything at once keeps you stuck.
By the end of today’s conversation, you’ll know how to cut through the noise, choose the right priority for you, and start creating a retirement plan that feels doable instead of overwhelming.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ The #1 reason competing money priorities keep you stuck
✅ How to identify which financial priority matters most right now
✅ Why solving one thing at a time creates confidence and momentum
✅ Examples of how different priorities (debt, savings, retirement) shift the path forward
✅ The key question that helps you uncover your best next step toward retirement
💜 Book your free Retirement Ready Q&A Call
💰 Join the Retirement Ready Workshop
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when you think about retirement and maybe you're, you know, researching, searching, Googling, whatever, like, what should I do? What are the steps I need to take? What are the things I need to check off? And before I continue on, hopefully you've grabbed my retirement ready checklist. If not, you can find that at Elevate Finances us.
Slash checklist and it'll give you those steps, but hopefully you'll stay listening to this or come back after you've done that. But as you're doing that, you find that you're not sure what the best step is for you to take, and you feel overwhelmed. And honestly, you feel like everything on that list is important and needs to be done today.
It's, it's like so urgent. Everything on there because you might be thinking you're. Starting late that you're behind, whatever those feelings are, and honestly, trying to tackle more than one thing is not going to be supportive. You're not going to find. That you're making any progress, so what should you do?
That's what I'm going to help you solve today in this episode. Specifically, how do you know your best next step in retirement planning? Honestly, this will help you determine the first step, the second step, and so on and so forth. So last episode I shared about choosing your priorities with money. If you missed that episode, be sure to listen to that.
It will also support you in defining your direction. A little bit different than this, but hopefully kind of. It's going to cover what I will later talk about as rules and things like that, so that will make sense. So be sure to don't, you know, go back and listen to that if you have not. So you feel looking at your list, whether it's the list I gave you, or the list you found somewhere else, or just the things you know you need to do and you fill the pole of several priorities.
I need to pay off debt. I need to build my savings. I need to catch up on retirement savings. Do you remember those years where money was tight and we weren't contributing at all? ? Everybody's been there. Everybody's done it. Right now you may be shuffling your money to savings. You're like, okay, I've gotta save.
But then you look at your debt and you think well, I've gotta get this paid down. You kind of pull back and go to doing that. And then you experience a tight month and you're like, Ugh. How is a lot of expenses? Am I doing things in the right order? How can I make progress in any of these areas?
Ultimately, you do know that you want to retire, but how do these quote priorities fit together, come together, support you in achieving that? First off, there is no right order. Somebody can dispute me all they want, but I will tell you there is no right order. Being stuck in that, that there is, or that there's a magic wand that's going to fix it will only keep you, you know, spending more time looking for that spiraling, all of those things.
What do you need to do? Well, I'm gonna tell you what, and then I'm gonna tell you why you need to name your one priority. And why is this important? It helps you to get focused on the one thing. Any of those things on the list that you are not doing is going to move the needle. That's why there's really not an order, correct.
You just need to look at those things and explore it more from feelings and thoughts. You know, oh, I could do that with a lot of ease, or I have a lot of stress about that. For example, if your biggest stressor is debt, then that becomes the first thing to solve. If you feel behind in savings, then you're going to choose that one thing and you're going to build a consistent savings rhythm.
Now, what if both of those kind of are our priority? This is why I mentioned if you have not listened to episode 1 55, the one right before this. In there, I talk about a rule and if you're feeling like I need to pay off debt, but I don't wanna eliminate savings, going and listening to that where I talk about that rule and that percentage.
Right. 75. 25 is going to prioritize one of those things, but you're not neglecting both. And I know at this, you know, this stage, this age, this is what a lot of the individuals who are looking to work with me are like, what do I do first? You know, that's the question. That's their need. That's where they feel stuck.
What do I do first? Pay off debt or save? And like I said in last episode, it can be an impact. Thing. But what you are going to do if you're not, you know, working with a coach or taking in anything else into account and have support, you're doing this on your own. You're gonna choose either the one that is the biggest stress, maybe put that percentage up higher.
And because once you get rid of that stress, your mind is going to be freed up. You're going to be able to make better financial decisions 'cause you have the brain capacity to sit there with it longer. If you look at, you know, the list, or if you're looking at debt and savings and you're like, well this is the easiest one for me.
Do that one. If something looks easy and it's for you, you're like, I got this and I can do it, then go do it. Like I said, anything on that list is going to move the needle, but you need to remember, you don't need to solve everything at once. Just one thing. One thing that's gonna reduce your stress, or one thing that's going to be easy for you to implement.
Priorities are the building blocks of a retirement ready plan. One solved priority, creates momentum for the next. That's why you want to name your one thing, give it your focus. Now, don't ignore, like if you're going to save and then you're just gonna keep paying on the debt, we don't wanna forget the debt.
We still have a commitment. We still have that. But if we're not going to be tackling above and beyond the debt, we'd rather save. Then you've gotta remember that. You've gotta be like, I'm all about savings. I'm all in. That is where my focus is. You know, hopefully you've got a certain milestone that you wanna reach, okay, while I'm all of a sudden saving either this percent or this much, then I can lean into.
Paying off debt more, there's a, again, this falls so well with last episode about balance, you know, the now and the later, and being sure that you can, you know, choose one thing, get it done, put it into motion, have it be doing and working, and then choosing another. So if you can get it implemented in 30, 60, 90 days, great.
Then choose your next one thing. I'm not saying that you just stick with paying off debt until it's completely paid off to save, get the rhythm in there, get that system going, get that moti, you know, the momentum, get that flowing and moving through. I want you to answer this question. What's the one thing.
That if solved for you would make retirement fill possible. Gonna ask it again. What is the one thing, you've got something that's heavy, it's weighing, it pops up in your mind when I say this. What's the one thing that if solved, would make retirement fill possible? Whatever popped into your head is the first thing you need to tackle.
If you're like, everything popped up into my head, I want to let you know that solving the one thing laying out. The next thing is the exact work we do together inside the retirement roadmap session. This is your personalized coaching session where we do a financial reality checkup. Within that, we'll uncover your priorities, show you exactly where your money is going, and give you a plan to move forward with confidence.
Working with a client. It was a couple. They're about five years away from retirement, but they did not know, number one, how much they were spending every month, and number two, they were lacking on their sinking funds to be able to be stable within retirement. That priority came up in that first session.
Helping them solve that one thing first, just help them continue to move forward and gain that confidence that they could retire when they want. If that session sounds like something that would benefit you, I want you to go, you know, visit the website, elevate Finances, us slash roadmap covers everything we do.
How long, how much, all of those things there. You can schedule a free call from there as well. And if you have any questions, I would love to chat with you about that. To wrap up the episode, I just want to remind you, there is a list. There are things that need to be done. But you don't have to have everything figured out today.
So I want you to choose one thing, choose one priority, give it your focus for the next 30, 60, 90 days. See how far you can get, see what momentum you create. And then once you feel good, like yes, that is working. It's in motion, the process, I've got it down. Choose your next one thing. Everything on that list will move the needle.
You don't need to have all of the those answered today. I encourage you to go choose your one thing today. And again, what's that one thing that if solved, like your biggest hurdle would make retirement feel possible? Thank you for listening. I hope this encouraged you, that it's just really about one thing, and if you need help with that one thing, I hope you'll reach out.
And if not, we'll see you next step. Episode.